So it’s not much, but it’s something. I told myself all I had to do was get on the treadmill… If I wanted to get off it in 5 minutes, so be it. But once I got going, I decided to do Run5k W1D1.
It’s not that anything is wrong with it… It just puts a lot of pressure on it happening… And the timing isn’t what’s important, it’s finding someone truly amazing and worthy of you. And maybe they’ll come along when you’re 28 or 29, but maybe you’ll be 31 or 35 even.
I wasn’t trying to be rude by saying that, I just think a 30 by 30 list should be about doing things for you, things that make you grow as a person, and be even more amazing than you already are.
I just feel like if you put a time crunch on it, you could find yourself settling for someone who isn’t truly worthy of you… Or maybe you won’t, but maybe you won’t find them in time? It’s just such a circumstantial thing, that you have no “control” over persay… And if you fell short of it, it wouldn’t be your fault… But could end up making you feel bad about it?
If your 30 by 30 list is all things that you can make happen, and you have complete control over… You’ll feel much more accomplished when it happens. Love will come along when you least expect it.
You’re amazing, beautiful, and have already accomplished soooo much… All that love crap will show up when it’s meant to :)
I’m literally dying over here…